Friday, May 8
Letters To Ex Boyfriends
Are you hoping to get your ex back and spend the rest of your life with him/her? Maybe you are thinking to talk to him or write to him to put everything back in place. Will letters to my ex boyfriend help me to get back together with him? Or will it make the situation worse?
Well, it really depends on several factors. The first thing we want to look at is you boyfriend's intention. If he secretly want to get back together with you too, then your letter will probably be well received, depending on the way write it.
However, if he has been avoiding you like a plague, this letter may not be as useful. For example, maybe you have been calling him again and again and he didn't pick up the phone. So you wait his reply and of course that didn't happen.
Next, you try sending lots of text messages asking him to call back. And again, you didn't receive any response. In such a situation, it is obvious that your boyfriend is avoiding you and if you keep on doing the same thing, it will probably not help you after all and may even make the situation worse.
In fact, the act of calling again and again and sending tons of text messages is one of the most common mistakes made by many women. Why is it a mistake?
Well, there are many explanations. One of them is that this is an act of desperation and neediness. In any men women relationship, no one likes to be around a needy and desperate partner. Acting in this manner will only serve to drive your ex even further away from you.
You definitely do not want to make this mistake as it will only make it harder for you to get your boyfriend back.
So if you write a few letters to ex boyfriends and they didn't respond to it, then forget about them and move on. But if they do respond, then it could be a great sign and you can now know whether does your ex still have feelings for you.
Tuesday, May 5
Does Your Ex Still Have Feelings For You
OK, you have broken up with your ex whether he was your boyfriend, your husband or lover. Things have been a little shaky, you have had problems moving on or you just do not want to give up on the relationship.
You know that you still love your ex but you are wondering does your ex still have feelings for you? You want him back but you do not know if he also wants to get back together with you.
Sign 1: After a long time of your break up and if you find your ex looking at you and saying 'hi' or just smiled at you, that would be a good sign! Coz your ex seems to have some feelings for you. May be not quite like he/she wants to be with you but it's a sure sign of liking and obviously seems to have forgotten something bad of you. If you think your changes have something to do with this, I think you deserve an appreciation.
Sign 2: If you ever find your ex in some of your favorite spots that you normally used to hang out together. That's a sign for you to say that your ex have some feelings for you coz if your ex had forgotten you and about your relationship, I don't think your ex would ever want to get those memories haunt her.
Step 3: If your ex had immediately started dating some other person, and makes a point that you know about it, then you can assure yourself that your ex is trying to make you jealous. Nobody can date some other person when they are freshly broken up unless they have some purpose for it.
May be, you could wonder why your ex broke up with you in the first place? Guess what? Time and situation has got everything to do with it. And I bet its not very late that your ex would realize that.
Step 4: If it is a sure situation that you guys need to see each other every day like an office environment for example, and if your ex ever get to talk to you for some reason. It could be for, nothing personal or for anything and if you ever find your ex getting emotional i.e. abnormally emotional or some people used to express their loneliness unconsciously. These are possible signs that your ex is missing you.
Remember that these signs are not 100% sure because it can vary with people to people. You must just mistaken the sweetness or friendly approach of your ex, or maybe they still really love you. But these signs can serve as your references. The best way to approach this is to go with people who knows your ex.
If you still have contact with any of your ex's friends then an obvious opportunity to ask does your ex still have feelings for you is with them. They will be willing to help especially if your ex does still love you as your ex will no doubt have made this clear to them. There is also an opportunity here for you to let them know your feelings so they can pass this onto your ex.
So communicating via your mutual friends or your ex's friends is a good way to tell does your ex still have feelings for you.
You know that you still love your ex but you are wondering does your ex still have feelings for you? You want him back but you do not know if he also wants to get back together with you.
Sign 1: After a long time of your break up and if you find your ex looking at you and saying 'hi' or just smiled at you, that would be a good sign! Coz your ex seems to have some feelings for you. May be not quite like he/she wants to be with you but it's a sure sign of liking and obviously seems to have forgotten something bad of you. If you think your changes have something to do with this, I think you deserve an appreciation.
Sign 2: If you ever find your ex in some of your favorite spots that you normally used to hang out together. That's a sign for you to say that your ex have some feelings for you coz if your ex had forgotten you and about your relationship, I don't think your ex would ever want to get those memories haunt her.
Step 3: If your ex had immediately started dating some other person, and makes a point that you know about it, then you can assure yourself that your ex is trying to make you jealous. Nobody can date some other person when they are freshly broken up unless they have some purpose for it.
May be, you could wonder why your ex broke up with you in the first place? Guess what? Time and situation has got everything to do with it. And I bet its not very late that your ex would realize that.
Step 4: If it is a sure situation that you guys need to see each other every day like an office environment for example, and if your ex ever get to talk to you for some reason. It could be for, nothing personal or for anything and if you ever find your ex getting emotional i.e. abnormally emotional or some people used to express their loneliness unconsciously. These are possible signs that your ex is missing you.
Remember that these signs are not 100% sure because it can vary with people to people. You must just mistaken the sweetness or friendly approach of your ex, or maybe they still really love you. But these signs can serve as your references. The best way to approach this is to go with people who knows your ex.
If you still have contact with any of your ex's friends then an obvious opportunity to ask does your ex still have feelings for you is with them. They will be willing to help especially if your ex does still love you as your ex will no doubt have made this clear to them. There is also an opportunity here for you to let them know your feelings so they can pass this onto your ex.
So communicating via your mutual friends or your ex's friends is a good way to tell does your ex still have feelings for you.
Sunday, May 3
Ex Boyfriend Poems That Tells Friebdship
I'm always fond of ex boyfriend poems that talks about your ex being your friend. Well, it takes a lot of deal to stand up and say to your ex that you had move on and want to be friends with them. Anyway, you had great time with each other.
But really, can you be good friends with an ex-lover? Firstly, the word 'lover' has many connotations and the answer may be different for a one-night stand. But what I believe if it's someone who spent a substantial portion of his/her life with, someone who have had a good relationship with, based on shared values, ideas and emotions, a healthy friendship is definitely possible even after they are no longer involved. This is possible because every relationship evolves. If both people concerned have the same level of understanding that they did when they were lovers, it can be used to establish a stable friendship. Of course, if there's any negativity from either side, being friends may not be possible, and that's sad.
When a man and woman relate, there's always a part that is sexual, small though it may be. In most relationships, you tend to suppress the attraction. But when you're friends with an ex, it's much easier to understand and accept this attraction as you've already experienced all there was to experience. In some cases, one person may feel it more than the other, but either way. I think it's much easier to talk such residual attraction through, as you both share a certain level of comfort. Communication is the basis of any relationship.
Even when you and your ex have new love interests in your life or you are still wondering does your ex still have feelings for you, communication is still the key. I believe, for the new relationship to work, you cannot hide your past. The attempt should be not to do things that you need to hide. And you have to resolve the level of importance you want to give your current lover and your ex. Your partner may be insecure, but then we're insecure about so many things in our life. For example, people do compromise their careers for their relationship. So you have to either talk things through with your partner or compromise on your friendship.
As for whether an ex can be a platonic friend who can casually rib you about your present relationship or relate well with your current lover, it's all about the different levels of sensitivity that various people display. The dynamics between your friend, your lover and you will play out according to each person's position in your respective relationships.
But really, can you be good friends with an ex-lover? Firstly, the word 'lover' has many connotations and the answer may be different for a one-night stand. But what I believe if it's someone who spent a substantial portion of his/her life with, someone who have had a good relationship with, based on shared values, ideas and emotions, a healthy friendship is definitely possible even after they are no longer involved. This is possible because every relationship evolves. If both people concerned have the same level of understanding that they did when they were lovers, it can be used to establish a stable friendship. Of course, if there's any negativity from either side, being friends may not be possible, and that's sad.
When a man and woman relate, there's always a part that is sexual, small though it may be. In most relationships, you tend to suppress the attraction. But when you're friends with an ex, it's much easier to understand and accept this attraction as you've already experienced all there was to experience. In some cases, one person may feel it more than the other, but either way. I think it's much easier to talk such residual attraction through, as you both share a certain level of comfort. Communication is the basis of any relationship.
Even when you and your ex have new love interests in your life or you are still wondering does your ex still have feelings for you, communication is still the key. I believe, for the new relationship to work, you cannot hide your past. The attempt should be not to do things that you need to hide. And you have to resolve the level of importance you want to give your current lover and your ex. Your partner may be insecure, but then we're insecure about so many things in our life. For example, people do compromise their careers for their relationship. So you have to either talk things through with your partner or compromise on your friendship.
As for whether an ex can be a platonic friend who can casually rib you about your present relationship or relate well with your current lover, it's all about the different levels of sensitivity that various people display. The dynamics between your friend, your lover and you will play out according to each person's position in your respective relationships.
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